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9 Ways to Help Kid Perfectionists

Posted: November 30th, 2012 by Michele Borba


Parenting Advice for Kids Who Feel They’re Never “Enough” Dear Dr. Borba, My ten-year-old is first in her class, and it makes her nuts. She stayed up until one in the morning last night memorizing state capitals. I worry that if she keeps up this pace she’ll have a nervous breakdown. She is a great [...]



Helping Kids Learn From Mistakes

Posted: October 29th, 2012 by Michele Borba


Parenting tips to help kids recognize a key to success: “Learn from your failures.” Our first step is erasing the belief: “Mistakes are bad!” Do you want your child to succeed? (And what parent doesn’t.) Then know this: kids cannot learn to persevere, unless they recognize how to deal with failure. Mistakes can be a [...]



How Not To Raise A Quitter

Posted: March 17th, 2011 by Michele Borba


Teach your children to hang in there when the going gets tough, but know when to let them throw in the towel. Parenting advice I shared with Al Roker on the TODAY show Perseverance often makes the critical distinction between whether kids succeed or fail. Will they have the inner strength to keep on or [...]



Helping Kids Rebound from Mistakes

Posted: March 1st, 2010 by Michele Borba


Many historians feel that one of Winston Churchill’s greatest speeches was given at a graduation ceremony at Oxford University. He had worked on the speech for hours. When the moment finally came, Churchill stood up to the cheering crowd, and in a strong, clear voice shouted just three words, “Never give up!” He paused a [...]