The Warning Signs of Violence



	Building Moral Intelligence The Warning Signs of Violence by Michele Borba, Ed.D. michele@moralintelligence.com
	MORAL IQ TIP: Look for ways for your child to do kindly deeds, not just in your home but also in your community. For example: taking extra toys to a children's ward in a hospital, working at a soup kitchen, planting flowers at a shelter, or reading to the elderly. The more your child experiences the miracles of kindness when young, the greater the likelihood that she will make kindness a habit for life. These warning signs of violence were developed by the U.S. Department of Education If you have ANY concerns about your child, seek help immediately. Please, don't wait. Social withdrawal Excessive feelings of isolation or rejection Being a victim of violence Feelings of being picked on and persecuted Uncontrolled anger Low school interest and poor academic performance Impulsive and chronic hitting, intimidating, bullying Expression of violence in writings and drawings History of discipline problems Past history of violent and aggressive behavior Drug use and alcohol use Affiliation with gangs Inappropriate access to, possession of, and use of firearms Intolerance for differences, prejudicial attitudes Serious threats of violence. Dr. Michele Borba is an educational consultant and author who has conducted parent and teacher seminars to over half a million participants. Her latest book is Building Moral Intelligence: The Seven Essential Virtues that Teach Kids to Do the Right Thing (Jossey Bass Publishers). Information on her publications and seminars can be accessed through her Web site, www.moralintelligence.com. © 2001 by Michele Borba. Please contact for permission to reprint.